I've learned a few things over time about dealing with highly difficult, impossible people,
They tend to share these three main characteristics that's not so peaceful,
Its really common to hear that person proclaim that "everyone likes me"
You must also realize they always like to blame people so much they have a complete set of skills at it.
Keep in mind actually the more they blame you the more they are probably the ones at fault.
If you accept responsibility for your on faults and resolve to improve yourself, then its not you,
Remember these people can do no wrong, and there is a way to diffuse them too.
You must stay calm around them and don't get angry or use angry words with them this never works,
Use the faith, love and gifts God has given you to deal with these kinds of jerks.
At some point you will have to terminate your relationship with these types of people if not physically,
Then most definitively mentally, I know this sound impossible and sounds like a theory,
But It can be achieved and never become a clone of them what every you do,
They love to be the victim an play the victim in every way and that's not you.
Be strong, trust in your instinct that you are in the right and you are good,
And if you ever need help with these people God will be there just as he should.
32For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them.
33And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same.
34And if ye lend to them of whom ye hope to receive, what thank have ye? for sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again.
35But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
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If you're tired of victim thinking or dealing with those type situations and want to read a really good book on Personal Accountability that'll change the way you think and feel
go to www.qbq.com and buy the book QBQ
I promise it will change your life if you know me personally and would like to read this book see me i'll let you borrow my copy!!!
They tend to share these three main characteristics that's not so peaceful,
They cannot be reasoned with,
• they believe they can do no wrong, and
• they are convinced that everything is someone else's fault.
If you never had the pleasure of having to deal with one of these also know as narcissists,
Here's a few tips on how to deal with them that might help you next time you encounter them because they exist.
First you must recognize these people do exist and you'll eventually encounter them,Its really common to hear that person proclaim that "everyone likes me"
You must also realize they always like to blame people so much they have a complete set of skills at it.
Keep in mind actually the more they blame you the more they are probably the ones at fault.
If you accept responsibility for your on faults and resolve to improve yourself, then its not you,
Remember these people can do no wrong, and there is a way to diffuse them too.
You must stay calm around them and don't get angry or use angry words with them this never works,
Use the faith, love and gifts God has given you to deal with these kinds of jerks.
At some point you will have to terminate your relationship with these types of people if not physically,
Then most definitively mentally, I know this sound impossible and sounds like a theory,
But It can be achieved and never become a clone of them what every you do,
They love to be the victim an play the victim in every way and that's not you.
Be strong, trust in your instinct that you are in the right and you are good,
And if you ever need help with these people God will be there just as he should.
Luke 6:32-35
32For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them.
33And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same.
34And if ye lend to them of whom ye hope to receive, what thank have ye? for sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again.
35But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
If you're tired of victim thinking or dealing with those type situations and want to read a really good book on Personal Accountability that'll change the way you think and feel
go to www.qbq.com and buy the book QBQ
I promise it will change your life if you know me personally and would like to read this book see me i'll let you borrow my copy!!!
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